All of us grow older and theoretically wiser. When we look back, we often think about “what if”. There are things, situations, reactions which if it had been different could have led to different outcomes. If you had a chance to go back to your younger self, is there any advice you have?
I thought about it and here’s a poem on what I would say to ‘20 year old me’ –
Time flies, as today, I’m thirty five
Seasoned and wise, no longer naïve
Now what’d I advise the younger me
If I’d another chance to be yours truly
This journey taught me many lessons
Joy or sorrow, always learn the essence
Never sweat the small stuff
For life’s taking smooth with the rough
Tough times will often hold sway
But happiness is never far away
Aim for the moon no lesser bars
Even in failing, you’ll reach the stars
Problems that seem so big
Will fade from memory real quick
These tests are thrown to help you
Grow self-belief and reap what’s due
Don’t compare with others what you got
You’ll never know the pain in the other lot
Value people who make you smile
They’ll be by your side that extra mile
Chart your own course and let it take you
A unique direction with surprises anew
Use faith, love and laughter alone
To create memories of your own
Hope this poem resonated with you. I would love to hear your thoughts and what advice you would give your younger self. You can subscribe to my blogs to read more.
So so beautifully penned, Prerna. “JOY OR SORROW, ALWAYS LEARN THE ESSENCE”, how true is that.
Thanks so much Vartika. I’m glad it resonated with you.
Don’t we wish we could talk to our younger selves. I would tell her not to worry cause everything turns out just alright
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Good one Namratha and so true!
It was lovely Prerna! There’s a lot of advice I would give my younger self, most of all, to be yourself and believe in yourself! and not worry about what others think or say!
Thanks Kalpana. Well said – that is indeed the most precious advice!
Beautifully penned, Prerna! Loved it
Thanks so much Puspanjalee.
We need to really stop comparing. Good post. loved the lines.
Thanks Zainab.
Not only I could relate to each and every word you have written, but I found the poem exceptionally beautiful. Such a simple yet touching poem, Prerna. You really do have a way with words! 🙂
Thanks so much Anshu. It means a lot coming from you!
Beautiful poem.. Loved reading it.. #hellomomyread #myfriendalexa
Thank you Rupali!
Beautifully penned, The concept of writing to a younger new is so good. As we grow older we forget our younger selves, our likes and dislikes, our passions… but then growing old makes us experience so many new things each to be discovered and cherished once more. #MyFriendAlexa
Well said Shubhra. I’m so glad you liked my piece!
Loved it Prerna.
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Thanks Sindhu!
Well penned. The things we’d all love to tell our younger selves… I’d like to start with learn a little patience, and develop perseverance. Your poem covers most of the things anyone would want to tell their part self.
Thanks Varad. I’m thrilled to get your comment as I’m a huge fan on your write-ups! Thank you!
Aim for Moon no lesser bars
even when falling you’ll catch the stars
i love your poetry so true and inspiring.
Thanks so much Richa!
Beautifully penned. Just a thought though, just as we want to tell our younger self that things will work out and not to stress, I wonder if our future self is telling the same thing to us as we stress our way thru life!
Well said Meena. Probably so. Things that seem so big today, will eventually fade from our memory!
Beautiful words , Prerna. We always ponder over the ‘What if’ situations especially when we are going through a low and you have brought out the essence of the whole mood so well…
love these lines – TOUGH TIMES WILL OFTEN HOLD SWAY
BUT HAPPINESS IS NEVER FAR AWAY!!
Thank you Meenakshi. I’m so glad you could relate to it and thanks for quoting my lines. Means a lot to me!
Very nicely penned.
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Great poem and Nice work Prerna Ji. It definitely resonated with me. Keep flying.
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Thanks Manas. The admiration is mutual. Keep it going!
So aptly put up by the 35 yr old me.. for the younger me.. HAPPINESS IS NEVER FAR AWAY!!
Thanks Kapila. I’m glad you liked it!
Very beautifully written. Faith, love and laughter to create memories. Beautiful advice..
Happy to hear that. Thank you!
Beautifully written, i love the beautiful expression in the poem
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Thanks Yogita!
Never fret when others gain , you don’t know how much they suffer. Nice poem:)
We should learn from our past.
Thank you Aditi. You are so right!
Wow!! So so so very beautifully expressed. Loved every single word of it.
Happy to hear that Monalisa. Thank you so much!
Nice poem. Definitely we become wiser with time, since we can see what we achieved with what kind of efforts. Yes we must have big dreams to achieve big.
That’s a beautiful thought. Thanks for sharing it!
Lovely poem! I resonated with a lot of thoughts here.
Happy to hear that Neha. Thank you!
Beautifully written Prerna.. n i could relate to every word of it❤❤❤
That’s so nice Rashmi. Thanks!
Beautiful
Thanks!
Don’t compare your life with others, their problem and victory would differ from us (this was on my insta post today). I’m glad to read this poem, totally relatable.
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Wow Varsha. We connect. The same thoughts exactly. Hope to stay connected with you through our blogs!
wise words penned beautifully! what more do we want?
This is something all of us can relate with and learn from.
Thank you Priya for your generous words. Feels great to read them!
What a lovely poem. I would say something similar to my younger self for sure
Anchal, I’m happy to hear that. Thank you!
So beautifully penned. The poem echoes my sentiments.
I’m so happy to hear that Aparna. Thanks!
The poem depicts so wonderfully the essence of living life and while it’s a poem to the younger self, I think it’s also a compilation of the principles to live life each day. Loved it!
Thanks Dipali. Yes I was hoping it would speak to all age groups and maybe to our current self as well. Thanks for realizing that!
So beautifully you have written this post.. Just loved it
Thanks so much Priyal!
Lovely poem. Could relate a lot.
I’m glad Purba. Thanks!
Poetry packed with sound advice. It reflects the optimism and persistence in your nature. A mature approach towards life.
Beautifully written!
Thanks so much Pri for your kind words. They mean a lot to me!
Wow! What a beautiful poem! As we grow older life teaches many things! Every time we think we are wise, life comes up with a new surprise for us and adds to our learning!
Thanks Sitharaam. That’s so true! The only thing constant in this world is change.
Even so, I often find myself wishing I could tell my younger self some things about how life really works, about what’s real and true, and thereby dissolve some of the harmful preconceptions and assumptions I had way back then. That is a frustrating impossibility, but it’s worth thinking about sometimes.
Yeah but I guess it can’t be done, as you said!
I wish I could talk to my younger self and say hey dont worry you will be stronger and better soon…
Yeah Shail. Thanks!
Lovely poem. You have penned a very meaningful poem with such simplicity. These are the words even I would want to tell my younger self.
I’m so happy to hear that Rashi. Thanks so much.
I will turn 30 next year, but I can totally relate to your poem!
I’m glad Avantika!
Resonates very well with me! I am 31 and I am thinking if writing a poem or a letter to the younger me would be better!! Lovely poem, that was an encouraging read!
Thanks so much Jayanthy. You should defintely go for it! Hope I inspired you for it.
I always admire people who can write beautiful poetry. Will visit your blog again.
You made my day Milan! Thanks so much.
Prerna, words are flowing with a sway in your poetry. Loved it. And I like the lines where you say, don’t compare yourselves and you don’t know what is others lot.
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So happy to hear that! Thank you for the appreciation!
“DON’T COMPARE WITH OTHERS WHAT YOU GOT
YOU’LL NEVER KNOW THE PAIN IN THE OTHER LOT” so very true. Beautifully written Prerna. I wrote a letter to my younger self for a writing challenge. And I felt so good after writing that. It’s surprising how much we learn in our life span. And there is always a room for improvement.
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Alpana, thank you so much for quoting me. Feels on top of the world, coming from you. Pls share your piece too. I would love to read it!
A beautiful poem!! Loved it #Viddhreads #MyfriendAlexa
Thanks Vidhya. I’m happy!
very thoughtful lines. its all about in mind how you take it
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Yeah that’s true Pooja!
Simple and touching. Beautifully penned
Thanks Sashwata!
learning the essence in every phase is what life is about. Great reading #mommyinmereads #myfriendalexa
Thanks Jhilmil!
Beautifully written, I may love to tell these things to the younger me, and would ask her to erase a few mistakes
True that Supriya. Thanks!
Loved the composition buddy. Could relate to every bit of it 🙂
I’m happy to hear that from you Roma. Thanks!
Beautifully penned
Thanks Esha!
What a lovely poem !
Each line is a gem and so apt.
Just wonderful.
Thanks Jaya. I’m so glad you liked it!
‘HAPPINESS IS NEVER FAR AWAY’ it is always in our hand to create happiness. Beautifully written!
Thanks so much Sanjota!
OMG!! Such a beautiful poem. Thoroughly enjoyed. Resonates in me too. Amazing!!!
I’m happy you liked it Tina. Thanks so much!
Relate!!! I felt I have written it.
Haha…Wonderful message…
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So sweet of you to say than Mann. I’m so glad that you felt so!
Nicely written… I would have definitely given the same advices to my younger self… But experiencing those things make us who we are now! Maybe I’ll now give those advices to my son so that he can have a new set of experiences of his own to learn from…
Thank you Haimanti. I agree with you!
Wow, an excellent poem with deep meaning, Prerna.
Thank you Huma. I’m glad you liked it!
Resonates so well with me! Wish I would’ve read this 10 years earlier…
Thanks Surbhi. I’m so glad. Happy you got a chance to read it anyways!
Lovely poem. Very relatable. I am in my twenties and I connected with the last two lines the most because I believe in living the moment which becomes the memory later on.
Thanks Paresh. I’m glad you could relate to a part of it. Maybe you should revisit it in your 30’s!
Lovely poem! There is lot to say to my younger self. Loved your idea
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Thanks so much. I’m glad you enjoyed it!
How simple and beautiful life would be if live it the way you have written. I am already your admirer and love reading your posts.
Thanks so much Nidhi for engaging with my posts now and always. Means a lot to me!
A beautifully worded poem to yourself, Prerna! If I had to write such a poem, I would tell myself not to lose the younger ‘me’ that was filled with wonder and love for the world and its inhabitants. Luckily, I still have stars in my eyes. 🙂
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That’s a beautiful thought Deepti and I’m glad to hear that you still have a little bit of ‘younger’ you in you! Thanks for engaging!
Yes Prerna, this poem definitely resonated with me.
The takeaway I have had from life is that problems that seem insurmountable today are just insignificant after a while. We must remember that it is all a play where we are playing a role.
So true Sona. I’m glad you could relate to it and hope to stay connected with you!
Great job with the poem. It completely resonated with me. However, a part of our younger self stays with us despite the wisdom we earned over the years.
True that Sinjana. Thank you!
‘Don’t sweat the small stuff’ is what I’ll tell a younger me too. Lovely poem, Prerna. With age we do get wiser. 🙂
True that Varsh. Thank you!
That’s a nicely penned poem. I think I should put something down for younger me.
Thanks Aditya. Go ahead and do that and share with me. I would love to read it!
Yes after reading ur articles i cud really relate to my young too thankyou for making me read this n look at my past
Happy to note that Snehalata!
That’s so beautifully written. I would probably have same thing to say to my younger self.
I’m glad to hear that Charu. Thank you!
Beautifully penned !! Your poem echoes my thoughts and feelings !!
Happy to note that Neha. Thanks!
Well I don’t think I can say anything which the people before me haven’t said. It’s amazing how something so personal can resonate with so many. That is what makes this poem the thing of beauty that it is.
Thank you Arjun. Your kind words, make me feel wonderful!
Everyone has something or the other to say to their younger self. I also had some accolades and many suggestions that I could have changed my present. But now I feel that everything happens with time.
True that Geethica. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
That’s so well penned down.. I guess age and experience teaches a lot..n no wonder we all feel the same irrespective we know each other or not
Thanks sonam. That is so true!
Nice and inspiring poem. PROBLEMS THAT SEEM SO BIG
WILL FADE FROM MEMORY REAL QUICK. How true is that.
True that Vandana. Thank you!
Amazing and beautiful post. Life is so simple to live it easily. Beautifully penned thoughts.
Thanks Humaira for your thoughts.
I had written a similar letter to my younger self. My biggest lesson had been to combine prayer and work. Nicely done 🙂
That’s nice to know Suchita. Thank you!
its surely as lovely poem with so much fdeel in it
Thank you Saba. It is a heartfelt account indeed!
Loved each and every line! Such a good thought on talking to our younger me! Keep writing
Thank you Surabhi for your kind and encouraging words.
“Aims for the moon no lesser bars” this line is so motivating, really loves reading this poem. #DelhibloggerReads #MyFriendAlexa
Thank you Preety. I am happy to hear that.
Wonderful topic Prerna and there is always something we would want to tell our younger selves. I would tell myself to stop caring much about what others think since a few years down the line none of these people will even be a part of my life.
Very true Akshata. Thanks for your enagement. Means a lot to me!
Wow lovely poem Prerna. first, I love the thought to write something to your younger one, and you had done complete justice with the theme. loved it totally. #Surbhireads #Myfriendalexa
I happy to read your comment and thanks for the engagement. Means a lot to me really!
Never sweat the small stuff is great advice indeed.You are a wise woman and it shows in your insight.
Thanks Amrita. Feeling honored to hear that from you!
Beautiful poem. I would say to my younger self to enjoy her life as studies, marks, percentages matter only to some extent. I want her to learn life skills like positive attitude, new hobbies, taking care of herself and keeping fit.
Very true Mahati. Don’t sweat the small stuff and look at the bigger picture!
Beautifully penned Prerna. I do resonate with you, would pass most of your words to my younger self:)
Thanks Pragnya. I’m happy to hear that!
Love, Faith and Laughter- the best combination to live life!
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Thank you!
Inspiring poem, giving a feeling to be young at 30s
Thanks!
Love every line of this poem. I am going to paste these two lines on laptop’s screen:
TOUGH TIMES WILL OFTEN HOLD SWAY
BUT HAPPINESS IS NEVER FAR AWAY..
This is such a sweet learning for me indeed. Lots of love 🙂
Feels great hearing that from you Shipra. Thanks you!
Feels great hearing that from you Shipra. Thank you!
“Value people who make you smile” – So true.
Thanks Ishita!