I am not one of those who has to mandatorily make a New Year resolution every year. Instead, all through the year, I say things that I want to do but adhering to them or not, well that’s a totally different story.
So here are some that come up every now and then but get lost somewhere. Read on to find out what I say and what I actually do with my resolutions…
This year only healthy eating, no exceptions.
Oh there’s a party tonight, we are going to relatives house tomorrow and I’m having lunch with friends the day after so dieting postponed!
Write regularly. Get in the discipline of posting an article every week
Let me wait for my son’s school to start. Wait to finish my pending reading. Restart after upcoming vacation. Wait for next year!
As clichéd as it sounds, I think of this every year – I need to lose weight!
After a few weeks of trying to shed the excess kgs I finally change the resolution to at least go back to being what I was the first time I thought of losing weight – a target that in itself is hard to achieve!
Life is beautiful
Do something about the situation in the country – state of women, cleanliness etc.
I take part in a beach clean-up or spread the word on importance of women’s safety and I feel like my work is done!
Pursuit of happiness
Think positive and stop judging people
And the next message on the family group pops up “Aunt Jane is getting married for the 4th time to a guy 25 years younger” and this resolution goes out of the window.
The Girl with all the gifts
I will not gift my son any more Lego. We should diversify his gifts
He opens you tube and shows me which Lego he wants next with that twinkle in his eyes and eagerness to play with this new kit. And I cave.
Into the wild
This year we will visit family less and explore newer places.
My niece says her first words. Oh my god, she is growing up so fast. I don’t want to miss out on it. I have to go and see her! And that leads up to the first of many trips to visit family in the year.
Fast food nation
No fried or junk food for me and my family this year.
And with the fresh aroma of fried pakoras from my neighbour’s kitchen, my resolution is also fried!
I feel a New Year’s resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other, at least for me. So I now make realistic resolutions and try to stick to them. Like today, I decided that this year I will go to the gym on all days that don’t end in ‘Y’. I will come back to you next year with my report on how that went!
This post is a part of New Year Resolutions blog train on the prompt “Gone with the wind – What I say and what I actually do when I make resolutions every year!”
P.S. in case you are wondering about my titles – yes they are all Hollywood movies about the related resolution!