Our lives revolve around our kids. Parenting is tough and it’s okay sometimes to feel overwhelmed and want to get away from it. Here are some things I do to re-energize myself in the time I get time away from my son.
1. Movies –
Nothing can help one unwind better than a good movie and getting lost in the reel world. I’m a big movie buff and love catching a mushy movie, a wild chick flick, a serious drama or a light comedy in the theatre or on Netflix / Amazon Prime.
2. Me time –
This can mean different things to different people. Everyone should identify what works for them. It can be therapeutic for some to let off steam through writing, curling up with a good book or getting pampered in a salon / spa. I try all of these things depending on my mood.
3. A short trip –
I love taking short trips alone or with my girl gang while my husband / parents or in-laws cheerfully step in to support in my absence.
4. Date night –
Dressing up and going out on a romantic date is a stress buster and mood enhancer. It also keeps the ‘spark’ alive. I find that this strengthens my bond with my husband and creates fond memories to look back on later.
5. Retail therapy –
Shopping cures many ills. With online shopping, anything you yearn for is just a click away. I personally prefer a trip to the mall and even window shopping without an actual purchase elevates my mood and frees my mind.
While these activities help rejuvenate, it’s good to have a hobby to concentrate on a couple of hours each day to take one’s mind off the primary role as a mother and caregiver. Without undermining our wonderful mommy role, it is important to invest in ourselves and do things that make us happy. Once the nest is empty these pursuits will help us remain engaged.
So identify your relaxing activity and share with me. I would love to hear from you in the comments below!
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This write-up is on the prompt for Week 2 – 5 ways to energize yourself when you are exhausted of parenting.
I would like to thank Sonam, a wonderful writer, for introducing me in the Momology Blog Train. I would like to introduce the next amazing blogger, Dr. Surbhi.
Lovely list Prerna, and I loved all the points. especially movie watching..it is really refreshing and gives us a perfect break from the chaos of hectic life schedule and parental responsibilities. parenting is hard and we all need a break to feel de-stressed and positive.
Thank you Surbhi and I’m glad you liked my post.
Very different and interesting list, Prerna. Shopping is something energizes me any day 🙂 Girls day out is something I really miss and wish for here. It is indeed the best therapy, I would say. Lovely write up.
Thanks so much Vartika.
I get my share of out time while I am in Office away from Kids. I believe SAHM need it more often as their whole day revolves around Kids. I get out in nature with Kids when I feel low.
That’s nice to know Upasna. Thanks for sharing!
Loved your write-up..such articles are really useful and you should write more …u can express nicely.❤️
Sure Pallavi. Thanks for your kind words!
Girls day out (which I am not able to do a lot) and doing sone diy is something that I enjoy a lot.
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Thanks Alpana.
Hey Prerna, as always you nailed it!
Well written and you dive into it so casually!
Thank you Bhanu masi. Means a lot to me!
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Aaah a date night is what really perks me up when I am hopelessly tired and ready to give it all up. I am really scared to try retail therapy as it could get addictive 😉
Try it Anupriya. It works the best sometimes!
Its been 5 years that we have gone for a movie.. been to a date after some 2 years.. alone.. it was nice rejuvenating time 😀
Yeah Kapila. Thanks for reading!
Lovely write up. Taking out time for yourself is really important. I loved that window shopping one tho! 😉
Thanks Sweta!
Loved your recommendations dear, I resort to many of them when I am in dire need to rejuvenate.
Go get some me time then Roma. You deserve it!
All of these ideas are super…but the retail therapy is and will always be my favourite…great option that you have shared!
Also, date night is a good idea 😉
Thank you Madhu. Glad you could relate!
These are great tips! I love watching a movie or enjoying my me time. I am not waiting for my kids to grow a bit older so that I too can take short trips.
That’s right Neha.
It’s really important that we remain sane in this journey of motherhood. To me, it’s all about Travels and playing sports that helps me .
That’s nice to know Jhilmil.
A break is a must and what better way to recharge yourself than going on a mini vacay or some fun shopping spree. Loved reading this.
Thank you Kavita.
Movies definitely seem to work in my favour 😉
And now all retail therapy can be done by a click. Thanks for taking part inn#Momology!
Thank you Zainab. I’m glad you liked it.
Much needed post. Mt me time is absolutely doing nothing and just lazying around.
That’s good too. Sometimes getting bored brings out more creativity!